Pushy pushy

I don't get it. Are these people desperate or plain obnoxious?

(MSN chat cut, pasted and chopped short)

Guy1 says:
i wanna meet you
sesat says:
huh?
Guy1 says:
today is the first day showing of Tom Cruse new movie
Guy1 says:
i want to go with you
Guy1 says:
it is a chance to know each other more
sesat says:
but i hardly know u
Guy1 says:
that's why i want to meet you i want to know you
it will be a nice chance
trust me
sesat says:
that's the thing, see..
sesat says:
i don't trust u
sesat says:
we only talked for like.. what.. 3 times?
Guy1 says:
dont be narrow minded like mot of the people here
Guy1 says:
some one is invting you to cinema
so what ??!!!
nothing with that
sesat says:
it is about how comfortable i feel with u
sesat says:
at this stage, i'm not comfortable with u
sesat says:
so why should i spend the time and energy?
Guy1 says:
any relationship whatever was its kind needs a start
it is just some time i want to spend with you to know you more
maybe we will feel comfortable to each other
sesat says:
well i don't see why you are trying to rush anything
sesat says:
and why u are pushing me
Guy1 says:
i am not pushing you
it is up to you
i am trying to clarify my intentions and convince you
but the thing i say is that you dont really need to be scared
so what do you think ?
sesat says:
i have already met a few online friends
sesat says:
so?
Guy1 says:
i dont want it to be only online
Guy1 says:
i want some thing more intersting and serious
Guy1 says:
i was very frank and clear with you
i think i have never said that to any body else
Guy1 says:
so wanna continue this conversation face to face ??
sesat says:
well i already told you that i am not at a comfortable stage with u yet
sesat says:
i hope that u can respect that
sesat says:
if you dont then i'm sorry, i dont think we should continue this
Guy1 says:
you know
i dont like the way you talk
you have to speak more respectfully
i will not die if you are not comfortable
Guy1 says:
i dont understand you people here
you are afraid of anybody who is foreigner
u make a big deal from small things
you need to sms or to chat for years before you can meen any body


-At this point, I got Really pissed-


sesat says:
i think it is you who should treat me with more respect
sesat says:
i told u that i am not comfortable meeting u but still u want to push it
sesat says:
i have met with online friends after talking to them for a few weeks or months
sesat says:
being a foreigner or not is not my concern
sesat says:
u think that everyone here is bias??
Guy1 says:
i do treat you with respect
but you keep saying i dont rust you i am not comfortable
while i am speakning to you very clearly
sesat says:
i can tell u that i have encountered online ppl who have treated me like SHIT
sesat says:
is it wrong for me to be cautious???
sesat says:
i am clearly telling you the TRUTH when i say i'm not comfortable with u YET
sesat says:
why cant u just accept that???
Guy1 says:
umm....... maybe you have right here
but i didnt ask you to meet in a seperate place
i chose a public place
sesat says:
i hardly even know u!!
Guy1 says:
and i said i want just to know you more maybe we will like each other
sesat says:
how would i know what YOU want??
sesat says:
and personally i dont like the way u are talking to me
Guy1 says:
i like the brave and cautious people like you


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Guy1 says:
i respect that very much
Guy1 says:
i am getting more comfortable with you
and even when i asked for your pic that was becasue i want to get along with you easily and the pic would help
Guy1 says:
so if you keep expecting any body like this ... u will opress many people
sesat says:
the people i have met, i have not regretted meeting them
sesat says:
and i dont want to regret meeting anyone in the future
sesat says:
i think i am able to judge for myself the good guys from the bad
sesat says:
if u want to continue getting to know me then i hope u will not push me anymore or i will block u..


At the same time.. in another chatbox....


sesat says:
sorry, i'm arguing with someone
sesat says:
he's pissing me off..
sesat says:
online fella who wants to meet me..
Guy2 says:
HUH????
Guy2 says:
why wanna meet???/
Guy2 says:
hmm...me also wanna meet worrr....me 2 me 2 me 2
Guy2 says:
me me me!!!!!
Guy2 says:
hey...why that guy wanna meet???
sesat says:
.....
sesat says:
why do u think he wana meet
Guy2 says:
hmm...maybe he wanna know u better....or maybe he wanna date u lor
Guy2 says:
2 possibilities
Guy2 says:
so what do u think about him???
Guy2 says:
if one day in future i too ask u out to meet up will you come out ??? or get piss off??
sesat says:
.....
sesat says:
depends on how comfortable i am with u
Guy2 says:
so r u comfy w me now???
Guy2 says:
trust me...lorrr....come come we meet...at KLCC..at 11pm tonite...if u don't come i don't go.....

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I'm really tired and seriously starting to wonder why I waste my time and energy layaning people like these. Are they really going to develop into proper friendships? Is it true that if you don't meet up, the relationship will go nowhere? Isn't it possible to care for online friends as well?

I have a few online friends who have become real people in my life. We share problems, we webcam, we talk on the phone occasionally, we sms when we are not online. I honestly care for some of these people, and I know that the water flows both ways. The only difference is that we do not meet in real life.

Truth of the matter is... Many online friendships don't work out as real life friendships. Sometimes it is shocking how different people (me included) are IRL as compared to their online personalities.

What does 'real' friendship entail, then? Touch? Smell? Eye contact? Aren't those merely physical attributes that are not relevant to an emotional and mental relationship? How about those people who are my real life friends, but we only keep in touch online now? Aren't we still considered as 'real' friends?

In the end ... Does It Really Matter ... ?